There are two things every human being needs:
Belonging and Purpose.
In John 21:7-17, after having denied even knowing Jesus only a few nights beforehand, a despondent Peter goes fishing with a few friends. And because of the overflowing grace of Jesus, Peter and his friends are stunned to experience Jesus, now alive in his resurrected glory, cooking breakfast for them on the shore.
What follows is one of history’s most…awkward exchanges. Jesus asks Peter three times, “Do you love me?” (Note: if you have to be asked three times, you must not be showing the love too well.) Of course, these three times echo the three times Peter had denied Jesus just a few nights earlier. Jesus is reinstating Peter as an apostle.
Jesus is taking a dead relationship and resurrecting it, by giving Peter a renewed sense of belonging and purpose.
Even in this moment, Peter must have felt like a fraud. He knew what he had done, and how he had failed. But if we’re honest with ourselves, we should all feel like frauds to some extent. All have fallen short of the glory of God, Paul reminds us, so we rely on the grace of God for giving us a seat at his table. Because of Jesus, we know we belong.
But belonging is just the beginning. Belonging exists to strengthen and empower one’s purpose. One doesn’t belong on the football team just to talk about football, or on the fire department just to watch movies about fires. Jesus gives Peter his purpose: “Feed my sheep.” Because of Jesus, we know we have purpose.
- Where do you find a sense of belonging and purpose?
- Do you see yourself as having the ability to help other people find belonging?
- What role can you play in helping others find purpose?
- The apostles catch 153 fish — far more than they needed in that moment. What does that tell you about God’s plans for the world?