It’s always easy to compare ourselves to others, isn’t it?
Sometimes we put ourselves up on a pedestal, seeing ourselves as better than others. Honestly–who hasn’t at least once blamed other drivers for being “the problem,” when the reality is we’re also right there contributing to the heavy traffic!
Other times, we may see others as up on that pedestal, which can lead us to try to “keep up with the Joneses.”
Both of these comparisons lead us away from the truth — everyone suffers from “soul sickness.”
From Pastor Aaron: “Sin is an illness that affects every human being. It is the sickness of our souls that results in individual moral failures and behavior but can also extend to social scales where collective sin results in systems of oppression and abuse. By looking at the story of the Pharisee and Tax Collector today, we saw evidence of both in two very different responses to God.
In essence, we revolt against the way of God and choose our way. But through the grace of God and the work of Jesus in our lives we can be healed of the brokenness that sin has created. This is what Paul calls full restoration, that our souls can be made well. However, we have to participate in our own healing.”
- Have you ever compared yourself to others, either as superior to them, or inferior?
- We like to “look good” to other people, but why are we often tempted to put only our “best selves” before God, as this Pharisee did?
- Have you ever felt similarly to the tax collector? What led you to that place?
- If you’ve heard the gospel before, you might not be surprised that the tax collector was the one justified by God. But think of someone today whom you would be shocked to hear was given God’s mercy.
- If Jesus were telling this story today, who might he use as his two characters?
Give yourself permission to do nothing for a few moments today. In the open space, what might the Holy Spirit be bringing to your heart through this parable?
Romans 7:4-25 (The Message)
While we are each created in the image of God (Genesis 1:26-27) there is an undeniable chasm between God’s image within humanity and our experience of ourselves and the world. It is the distance between the life we want and the life we have. The distance between the life God wants for us and the life we resort to.
And ironically, though we each bear God’s image, we often don’t see it, because we have made a mess of the beauty in ourselves and others. We might even try to hide it…but we’re not doing a very good job.
- Try to make a list of things in people’s lives that make them “messy” (like, say, an addiction, or a divorce, etc.)
- What are some of the “messy” things in your own life?
- Most of us end up trying to hide our messiness (sins) from God. Why?
- If God is represented by the Father in the story of the Lost Son (see “The Father’s Heart“) then what do you think God would do if you were honest about your own messiness with him?
- How would churches be different if people were more comfortable bringing their messy lives in?
Give yourselves permission to sit still with this week’s scriptures, and with these questions, to see how the Holy Spirit speaks to you.
(Pastor Harlan Shoop guided us through the Parable of the Bridesmaids on Sunday, Sept. 3. Here are some of his reflections! –MM)
Wow, there is a lot going on in this passage! Matthew 24 and 25 are all Jesus words about the future of the Kingdom of God.
Matthew places this story in the middle of Jesus “parables”or “stories” on what the Kingdom of God will be like. The groom is expected by the bridesmaids to come sometime soon. Jesus teaches that at some point there will be a culmination of history. This could be for us individually at our death or some apocalyptic event like nuclear war with North Korea or a major earthquake. History is moving us to some place. It is clear that the time and place of these events are a mystery but that he is the Lord of history. In the meantime- believers are to be prepared. It seems according to this story that there comes a time when it will no longer be possible to make a choice about entering the Kingdom.
- What stands out to you as you read the text?
- What questions do you have as you read this section?
- What does the oil represent?
- Why don’t the five wise bridesmaids share their oil?
- Notice that the Groom comes at midnight, is there any significance to his coming at night and the importance of light in darkness?
- If Jesus were telling this today, like in a coffee shop or park, and you happened to be there…what do you think Jesus would be saying to you?
- In what ways can we prepare for His coming?
Luke 15:25-32, The Parable of the Lost Son…Part II.
Last week Jesus’ story was some real good news — the Father comes running to us even when we’re covered in pig slop and smell of body odor (metaphorically. Or maybe for real, come to think of it.)
But it doesn’t end there.
Some people have never run away. Some have stuck around. Sometimes out of love for the Father, but sometimes from a mere sense of duty, or even reward. That kind of service doesn’t beget joy…it begets entitlement. And disappointed entitlement = bitterness.
The elder brother in this story faces a choice: to let his bitterness consume him like the party guests are consuming their feast? Or to accept the abundant life the father has given to both him and his brother, and enter in.
For meditation and discussion:
- Have you ever “done your duty” without love, or joy? What was it like?
- In your journey of faith, have you ever switched which character you identify? What caused the switch?
- If the elder brother was sitting with you now, what would you say to him? Try actually saying it and let your imagination create a dialogue between you and him.
- Do you have any built up bitterness growing within you?
The truth is that bitterness that takes root can consume us, and the first thing we lose is the joy of being a part of the Kingdom of God in this life. But it needn’t hold us back.
Give yourself permission to bring to God whatever may be holding you back from him — God knows about it already — because his doors are wide open for you.
Luke 15:11-24, The Parable of the Lost Son.
This life gives us basically two choices: live in the Father’s home, or flee to a “distant country.” Our choice is usually based on how well we understand the character of our heavenly Father.
For meditation and discussion:
- In what ways do we find the “distant country,” far from God’s dwelling place, most alluring?
- What do we do in response?
- When we read this parable, who appears to be the main character, and why?
- What does the father’s response tell us about the nature of God, particularly toward us?
- In what areas of our own lives do we need God to run to us (v.20)?
Give yourself permission to sit still with this parable for a few moments this week as the living God speaks to your innermost self.